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Welcome to Players Club
San Antonio’s Premier Members Only Couple’s Club
 
 
ABOUT PLAYERS CLUB SAN ANTONIO
Player’s is a Private, Members Only, BYOB Social Club that first opened in January of 2000 catering to those interested in the swinging lifestyle. Membership is required of all who enter. Along with your initiation fees, our nightly dues include full access and all your basic setups, glasses, ice and condiments:
 
Every Thursday Night Is Our “Swingles” Night. A great night to experience the club at a much lower costs and enjoy the atmosphere. Admission for members is $20 for Couples, $5 for Single Ladies & $40 for Single Males. This is the only night that single males can have full access to all areas of the club un-escorted. Average attendance is 20 Couples, 5 Single Males and 5 Single Females. Open 8PM – 1AM
 
Friday Nights are a great way for members to come out and experience the club and meet new friends without the crowds we get on Saturday Nights. Un-escorted single males may attend but must remain in the bar area or the dance floor unless escorted elsewhere by a couple or single lady. As always, single males are identified by a special wrist band. Admission is $40 Couples , $5 Single Ladies  & $75 for Single Males. Average attendance is 30 – 40 Couples, 5 Single Ladies and 3 Single Males. Open 9PM – 2AM
 
Saturday Nights are usually our busiest nights and is open to Couples and Single ladies only. No Single Males are ever allowed, escorted or not. $50 Couples  & $5 Single Ladies. Average attendance is 65 – 75 Couples and 6 Single Ladies. Open 9PM – 3AM
 
ALL EVENTS ARE BYOB AND YOU’RE WELCOME TO BRING IN YOUR OWN FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGES. HOWEVER, WE DO ASK THAT YOU NOT BRING IN ANYTHING ELSE AS WE DO OFFER COMPLETE SETUPS, GLASSES, ICE, SODAS & JUICES. ALL ARE COMPLIMENTARY. ENERGY DRINKS LIKE RED BULL & MONSTER ARE $3 EACH.  CANNED SODAS, BOTTLED WATERS, ETC. ARE ALSO AVAILABLE FOR $1 EACH. PLAYER’S IS A PRIVATE CLUB AND NOT OPEN TO THE GENERAL PUBLIC. ALL PROSPECTIVE MEMBERS MUST FILL OUT A SIGNED MEMBERSHIP APPLICATION IN PERSON AND AT THE CLUB ALONG WITH A GOVERNMENT ISSUED PHOTO ID FOR CONSIDERATION BY OUR MEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE . NO EXCEPTIONS! PLAYER’S CATERS TO THE SENSUALLY EROTIC AND OUR GOAL IS TO PROVIDE A CLEAN, NO PRESSURE ENVIRONMENT WHERE FUN, PASSION, ROMANCE AND MORE IS POSSIBLE IN A FIRST CLASS ATMOSPHERE. RESERVATIONS ARE NOT REQUIRED AND ARE ONLY ACCEPTED FOR SPECIAL OCCASIONS. THE STAFF AND MANAGEMENT ARE ALWAYS AVAILABLE TO ENSURE YOUR EXPERIENCES ARE ALWAYS MEMORABLE AND PLEASANT. COME TO PLAYERS AND SEE WHY IT'S THE PLACE WHERE FANTASIES BECOME REALITIES!

 
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS.

FAQs

What is Swinging?
Swinging is best defined as social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating. It may be defined as recreational social sex. These activities may occur at a swingers club, a swingers party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison or with a third person in a threesome. Though single men and women are involved, it is primarily considered a couples activity.

What is a Swing Club?
Swing clubs are any organization, formal or informal, which exists to provide swinging activities. Swing clubs exist in a variety of forms. These include Swing Clubs, Party Houses, Circles and Socials, Bars and Cocktail Lounges and Contact Services. All but the contact services may be on-premises or off-premises. Contact services work via the internet and rarely provide swing parties although they may promote group travel. Parties given by on-premises swing clubs may have from ten to a hundred or more couples, though twenty to forty couples is the common average. Player’s can see as many as two or three hundred couples at some of their parties. On-premises means that sexual activity occurs at the party. Off premises swing clubs, cocktail lounges and bars help you to meet other swingers. Swinging will be elsewhere with the interested couples and singles responsible for the arrangements. The arrangements include who is to be invited, the location, date and time.

What is Sex in Swinging Like?
The actual sexual activity of swinging is varied. Though important, swinging is rarely centered around the orgasm but on the various pleasurable acts that lead to orgasm. Once on a bed, the participants will generally begin with kissing and caressing each others body. Both the woman’s and man’s nipples are favorite places of fondling, sucking and gentle nibbling, followed by licking and kissing around the genital area, then the genitals directly. Most develop techniques they feel pleasure their various partners.
Sixty-nine or mutual oral-genital pleasuring is popular. Both partner may masturbate the other, and vibrators may be employed, especially in group swing scenes such as in the swing club’s group room. These activities may be intermixed with intercourse done in a variety of ways. Anal sex is popular with some swingers. Bisexual swinging is more common among women than among men.
The on premises party offers a wide possibility of social interaction, selection, potential of swinging with others in a foursome, threesome, one-on-one, or in a group scene. Bisexual as well as heterosexual swinging is possible, principally among women. And the club on-premises party offers this without pressure in a structured environment. Private, semi-private and group rooms are generally provided to meet the desires of virtually everyone. Heated pools, Jacuzzis and hot tubs may be available to accent the social environment depending on local codes.

Who the Swingers Are
People who swing come from all economic levels. Every job classification, all races and nationalities are represented, though the majorities are Caucasian, middle to upper middle socio-economic class, and married. Swingers, married and single, tend to be adventuresome, emotionally mature, and have excellent relationships with their mates and friends. Single people are involved in swinging but not to the extent of couples. Many single women have joined swing clubs, finding them a refreshing alternative to the traditional bar scene.

Couples in Swinging
Swinging is “the recreation” for couples whether they are married, committed (having an ongoing emotional commitment), living together (co-habituating, with or without an on-going intimate relationship) or single couples who date. A study of swinging couples (McGinley, 1979) reported increased enjoyment and satisfaction in the relationships accompanied by a better understanding of self and mate, greater intimacy between the partners and a decrease in sex role playing and sexist expectations.
Swinging enables a couple to explore sexual and social feelings and needs together, permitting a demystification of sex which allows sex to assume a place in the relationship unhindered by the standard ties to love, duty, sex roles and morals of others.
 
Women in Swinging
It is certainly an understatement to say that the role of women in our society has greatly changed over the past several decades. The humanistic and woman’s movements have had an impact on sexuality also. The number of women choosing involvement in swinging during the past few years is remarkable. Sexual and social assertiveness on the part of women at swing parties and other swing activities is not only acceptable, it has come to be expected.
To openly be oneself without fear of seeming unfeminine is a delightful experience for a woman and a welcome experience for the man. Swinging provides the environment to alter sex-role playing for both sexes, allowing men and women to participate with each other in a uniquely human experience.
 
Men in Swinging
Whether married, in a relationship or single, swinging can be a wonderful experience for a man. Not surprisingly, most women who are into swinging were introduced to the lifestyle by a man in their life. Also not surprising, many men would swing if only they could. They are hindered from the experience by their marriage, or if single, their inability to find a woman for a swinging partner. Of course, guilt feelings about sex and pleasure, and sex roles, also hinder men from swinging.
Men are not the macho, always ready, self-reliant persons of fiction. They are as human as their female counterparts. They experience loneliness and fear and rejection. A man, on convincing his wife to try swinging, may experience unexpected jealousy and a feeling of loss when she walks hand in hand, partially nude and obviously excited, toward a bedroom with another towel-clad man. He had fantasized himself in swinging but had not comprehended the reality of his wife or mate swinging.
As with women, the experience of swinging can be growth producing for a man. It alters forever traditional concepts of man-woman relationships with sexist overtones. Through swinging, a man can experience a great deal of pleasure.
 


 
 
 
 
PLAYERS CLUB SAN ANTONIO RULES
1. As a Private Club, we reserve the right to refuse or revoke membership to anyone for any reason we deem necessary. We are a privatesocial club catering to couples, single ladies and a very select group of single gentlemen interested in  the swinging lifestyle.
 
2. The Ladies are our most precious commodities. They are the reason we all are here. So defer to their wishes and comfort level, let them set the tone of events and respect them at all times.
 
3. “NO” is a complete sentence here. It means NO. If you can’t understand that you will be escorted from the premises and you will forfeit your membership, user fees and will be banned from the club!
 
4. Discretion is the key here. Be discreet at all times and respect the privacy of others. Discussing the people you see and the activities that they engage in outside the club without their permission is grounds for revocation of your membership without refund.
 
5. NO PHOTOS ALLOWED! For the discretion of our members and their guests, no Cameras, Camera Cell Phones and Recording Devices of any kind are allowed to be used inside the club. Leave them in your bag or your car or they will be confiscated. If you would really like a picture, as the manager on duty and if they can take a picture using your camera without involving anyone else they may do so but it is up to their discretion. If you need to use your phone, please step out to the lobby or utilize our free wifi in the club.
 
6. ASK BEFORE YOU TOUCH! No one wants to be groped by someone they don’t know. Ask before you touch or you will be escorted from the club!
 
7. Proper Attire is required to enter the club and is strictly enforced. Management has the final word on what is and what is not acceptable and reserves the right to refuse your entry unless you’re dressed accordingly.
 
For Men, please dress to impress. No sneakers, sandals, ball caps, t-shirts or shorts. For Ladies, sexy, wild and see thru are always acceptable. At a minimum, think business casual!
 
8. Illegal drug use or offering money for sexual favors are two things that will always be grounds for expulsion and may be reported to the police. THERE IS ZERO TOLERANCE FOR THESE ACTIONS DON’T DO IT!!!
 
9. You must be at least 21 years of age to attend any Player’s Club Activities.
 
10. On Thursday & Friday Nights when Single Gents are admitted  there will be a limited number of spots available depending on the number of couples and single ladies present. All single men will be required to wear an identifying bracelet. Your membership does not guarantee you entry .
 
 


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